Josie Maciocha knew instantly her husband Stanley was her perfect match.
“I always liked people who are friendly and sociable. From the first day we met, we liked each other,” Josie, a 99-year-old parishioner of Transfiguration in Tarrytown, told CNY.
The Maciochas, who celebrated their 76th wedding anniversary Jan. 24, are being recognized as the longest-married couple in the archdiocese following an annual search conducted by the archdiocesan Family Life Office.
The search is done in conjunction with World Marriage Day, which is celebrated on the second Sunday in February near St. Valentine’s feast day of Feb. 14.
Stanley, 97, and Josie were living in the same Yonkers neighborhood when Stanley approached her one day and they began conversing. They went canoeing on their first date.
“I tried it,” Josie said of canoeing. “I was scared. I didn’t know how to swim, but I didn’t want to tell him that.
“I knew right away he was the right person. It was a nice life. We are very happy.”
The two were married at St. Casimir Church in Yonkers, the second of four generations of Maciocha family members to be married at St. Casimir. They have two daughters, Marilyn Gizzi and Barbara Rose; one granddaughter, Kristen Gizzi; and two great-granddaughters, Sophia and Olivia Flynn.
Ms. Gizzi and Ms. Rose attended St. Casimir School and Sacred Heart High School in Yonkers. Josie, who said she loved to sing, sang in the St. Casimir choir and volunteered at the parish church and school.
“Whenever there was any kind of problem that we had to deal with, we did novenas at all the different churches in Yonkers. Something always good came out of it,” said Ms. Rose, who lives in Vero Beach, Fla.
She said her parents “made us the people we are today. Most people will tell us we’re very strong. We learned a lot from them, that determination to go forward and not getting discouraged.”
Stanley and Josie are very proud of their Polish heritage and participated in many activities at the Polish Community Center in Yonkers, where Josie was employed as a hostess. Stanley, an avid golfer, was a welder and mechanic.
“My father to this day is still in love with my mother. She could do no wrong,” Ms. Rose said.
Stanley and Josie left Yonkers in 2016 and now reside at Brightview assisted living community in Tarrytown.
“Their determination stands out. They’re a very determined couple,” said Ms. Gizzi, a parishioner of St. Patrick’s in Bedford.
Alan Zale, a second cousin to Stanley, nominated the couple for the recognition after seeing the search publicized in his parish bulletin at St. Anthony of Padua in West Harrison.
“They’re warm and friendly,” said Zale. “They are very positive and fun to be around.
“We love listening to their stories. They’re just a joy to visit. They’re so uplifting and kind. Seeing people like that, they reinforce in me what we should aspire to be in terms of kindness.”
The longest-married couples
in the Archdiocese
Josie & Stanley Maciocha
76 years, Transfiguration, Tarrytown
Marion & Joseph Scaramuzzo
76 years, St. Charles Church, Staten Island
Virginia & George Rod
72 years, Holy Innocents, Pleasantville
Helen & Eugene Niminski
72 years, St. Gregory Barbarigo, Garnerville
Myrtle & Angelo Eugene Prisco
72 years, Our Lady of Perpetual Help/St. Catharine,
Pelham Manor
Michele & Anthony Flora
71 years, St. Elizabeth Ann Seton, Shrub Oak
Patricia & Donald Boyce
71 years, St. Joseph, Kingston
Rose & Ralph Federici
71 years, St. James the Apostle/Our Lady of the
Lake Mt Carmel, Carmel
Jennie & Gennaro Sepe
70 years, St. Eugene, Yonkers
Mary & Chester Bruskewicz
70 years, St. Denis, Hopewell Junction
Theresa & Joseph Siclare
70 years, Corpus Christi, Port Chester
Marion & Steven Scacca
70 years, Holy Child, Staten Island
Catherine & Vincent Tambone
70 years, St. Denis, Hopewell Junction
Dorothy & Martin J. Galvin
70 years, St. John Evangelist/St. Charles Borromeo, Pawling
Victoria & Conrado Torres
70 years, St. Ann, Yonkers
Catherine and William Simons
69 years, Immaculate Conception/St. Mary, Port Jervis
Carol & John White
69 years, Annunciation/Our Lady of Fatima, Crestwood
Rose M. & Leonard L. Kardas
69 years, St. Mary/St. Joseph/OLMC, Poughkeepsie
Thelma & Thomas Heinchon
69 years, St. John the Evangelist, Pawling
Helen & Dominick Palmeri
69 years, St. Joseph, New Platz
Bernice & Lawrence Hughes
69 years, St. Anthony, Yonkers
Eleanor & Joseph Lifrieri
69 years, St. Ann, Yonkers
Diana & Frank Besignano
69 years, St. Ann, Staten Island
Anna & Vincent Puglia
69 years, St. Charles, Staten Island
Rita & Anthony Manca
69 years, St. Mary, Our Lady of the Falls, Wappingers Falls
Irene & Thomas Sacco
68 years, St. Matthew/St. Stanislaus/OLPH, Ardsley
Celia & Thomas McEvoy
68 years, St. Augustine, Larchmont
H. Janet & John A. Morrison
68 years, Transfiguration, Tarrytown
Betty & John Heitzman
68 years, St. Joseph, Kingston
Melbarosa & Cornelius Thomas
68 years, St. Aloysius, Manhattan
Helen & Theodore Rozzi
68 years, St. Lawrence O’Toole, Brewster
Mary & Pasquale Ferrara
68 years, St. Charles, Staten Island
Wilma & George Mann
68 years, St. Elizabeth Ann Seton, Shrub Oak
Rachel & Richard DiBari
67 years, Our Lady of Pity, Staten Island
Vincenza & Jerome LoCascio
67 years, St. Charles, Staten Island
Anna May & Julio Anthony Petitti
67 years, Immaculate Conception/St. Mary, Port Jervis
Rose & Mario Bruno
67 years, St. Teresa, Staten Island
Anita & Thomas Liguori
67 years, St. Mary, Our Lady of the Falls, Wappingers Falls
Mary & Patrick J. Hart
67 years, St. Mary of the Assumption, Katonah
Dolores & John Kotalik
67 years, St. Christopher/St. Patrick, Buchanan
Ann T. & Joseph Giandurco
66 years, St. John Bosco, Port Chester
Jeanne & Russell Gilmore
66 years, St. Stanislaus, Pleasant Valley
Nancy & William J Hogan
66 years, Sacred Heart/Our Lady of Pompeii, Dobbs Ferry
Patricia & Edward F. Kiley
66 years, Holy Name of Mary, Croton on Hudson
Constance L. & Vincent Lazzaro
66 years, Immaculate Heart of Mary, Scarsdale
Ann & Angelo Rubino
66 years, St. John Bosco, Port Chester
Dolores & David Griffin
66 years, St. Joseph, Bronxville
Louise & Richard Marchetti
66 years, St. Martin de Porres, Poughkeepsie
Alice & James McDonnell
66 years, St. Rita, Staten Island
Marie & Joseph Mazzuca
66 years, St. Clare of Assisi/St. Francis Xavier, Bronx
Ann & Martin Downs
65 years, St. Paul /St. Ann, Congers
Joan & Robert Lockwood
65 years, St. Augustine, New City
Marian & Peter Senatore
65 years, St. Patrick, Bedford
Johanna & Joseph Criscuolo
65 years, St. Teresa, Staten Island
MaryJo & Dominick Santagate
65 years, St. Martin de Porres, Poughkeepsie
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